Hey babes! It's time for a conversation that goes beyond the glitz and glamour of girls night out. Lately, there's been a rise in incidents involving teenage girls and young adult women going missing, leaving us heartbroken and asking ourselves, "What if they had followed the girl code?" Stories like Tamia Taylor in Memphis, Aniah Blanchard in Alabama, Lauren Smith-Fields in Connecticut.
Today, we're diving into a girl code that isn't just about having a blast—it's about empowerment, unity, and ensuring that none of our sisters ever fall through the cracks. So, grab your favorite drink, get comfy, and let's explore how our girl code can be a lifeline in a world where safety and sisterhood are paramount.
1. We Leave Together: Protecting Our Sisters
When we come together, we leave together, and we do it to protect our sisters. The world can be unpredictable, and recent events have reminded us of the importance of looking out for each other. In a time when teenage girls and young women have gone missing, the girl code takes on new meaning. No one should ever be left behind or stranded, vulnerable to unknown dangers.
2. Stay Alert and Sober: Our Guardian Angels
Empowerment means taking responsibility for our safety. That's why we designate a sober guardian among us. This person stays alert, ensuring everyone's well-being throughout the night. In a world where unexpected dangers lurk, having someone alert and sober can make all the difference.
3. Buddy Club: The Power of Unity
Unity is our strength. If one sis needs to go to the bathroom, someone needs to go with her, it doesn't matter how "grown" you are. We've witnessed the power of sticking together, especially in uncertain times. The buddy club is our way of ensuring that no one is ever alone. It's a reminder that we're in this together, watching out for each other's backs.
4. Share Your Location, or at Least a Text: Peace of Mind
We prioritize each other's safety by sharing locations or sending a simple text when we make it home. It's a way of saying, "I care about you, and your safety matters." Recent events have made us acutely aware of the value of knowing our loved ones are safe.
5. Protect Your Drink: Vigilance Matters
We're vigilant about our drinks, never putting them down and coming back later. Recent incidents have made us acutely aware of the dangers of neglecting this rule. Women, especially cute ones like us, can be seen as easy targets. Sad to say, but not following this could mean that you have the possibility of being drugged or date-raped. We can't have that. The safety of our sisters is our top priority.
6. Stranger Danger: Trusting with Caution
In a world where trust can be a precious commodity, we've learned to be cautious. Accepting a drink from a stranger? Only if we've watched the bartender make it right in front of our eyes. It's a lesson in vigilance and safeguarding our well-being.
7. Safeguarding Our Way Home: Ensuring Security
We've been reminded that danger can strike at any time. When one of us drops off a friend, we stay until we've watched her safely enter her home and close the door. We understand the importance of security. It's not just a rule; it's a commitment to each other's safety.
8. Creep Intervention: Protecting Our Sisters
If one of us faces unwanted attention from a creep, we step in immediately. We'll pull her away to dance or create a reason for her to accompany us to the restroom. It's about protecting each other from potential harm, especially if it is making one of us uncomfortable. If that doesn't work, then it may be time to leave. Trust your gut.
9. Early Departure Protocol: Staying Connected
If you're the friend leaving early, you let the group know, and you send a text when you get home. We prioritize security, and this protocol ensures that none of us ever feels alone or vulnerable.
10. Fun, But Safe Fun: Our Guiding Principle
We've been reminded that empowerment and safety go hand in hand. Our girl code isn't just about having fun; it's about having safe fun. Recent incidents involving missing young women are a stark reminder of why our rules matter. We're here to empower and protect each other, always.
In Conclusion: Empowerment and Unity
Our girl code is more than a set of rules; it's a testament to our commitment to each other's safety, happiness, and well-being. Recent events have shown us the importance of sticking together, watching out for each other, and being vigilant in an unpredictable world. As we navigate the challenges of our time, let's remember that safety and sisterhood are paramount. We're stronger together, and our girl code ensures that none of our sisters ever have to go through the darkness alone.
Cheers to a world where the girl code is not just a set of rules but a lifeline of empowerment and unity.